Let's be honest: Valentine's Day can be pretty polarizing. It can evoke mixed reactions when you start thinking about the frenzy for holiday gifts like overpriced flowers or mediocre chocolate presented in a wasteful amount of heart-shaped packaging.
But this year, we decided it may be worth putting a little more emphasis on love. And more importantly, self-love with a few Valentine's Day gifts for yourself.
It took me a while to genuinely understand that 'self-care' may look unconventional. Given that I'm not inclined to want to sit in a bath or take a midday nap, self-care didn't resonate until it was framed as 'something that recharges your mental and emotional state'.
This provides much more flexibility to make the act of loving and caring for oneself highly individual. It could be cuddling with your dog, sipping on hot chocolate while watching the snow fall, or going for a run in the mountains. However Valentine's Day fits into your life, we'd strongly encourage you to tune in to what recharges you and set aside some time for that.
In case you're looking to show yourself some love this holiday season, here are 31 Valentine's Day gifts for yourself to consider. From the kitchen to the bathroom, these items are sure to bring a sense of satisfaction and calm your home rightfully deserves.
1. Nourishing Body Oil
Soften and nourish your skin without feeling greasy! We love this body oil from Osea, especially during the dry winter months. This full-body glow is also made from clean ingredients. What more could you ask for when it comes to Valentine's Day gifts for me?
2. Scented Candles
This candle from Eym Naturals is a go-to when it comes to finding something soothing to burn before bed. These Valentine's Day gifts for yourself include fragrances such as camomile, sweet orange, and lavender, making it the perfect mix to send you right to sleep.
Eym Naturals also carries candles that you can refill. Use the candle, save the container, and purchase a refill to be more sustainable.
3. Instant-Drying Sink Caddy
Experience a little bit of delight every time you wash your hands with the instant-drying Sink Caddy that keeps your space organized and prevents the puddles around the faucet. Our suggestion: pair this gift for Valentine's Day with a high end soap and lotion duo that you'll appreciate for the months to come.
4. Cookbooks
We really love Maman: The Cookbook. It has over 100 different recipes - from breakfast all the way to dessert, including the made-famous-by-Oprah nutty chocolate chip cookie. Who can resist that? We love that this cookbook is a compilation of stunning photos, easy to make recipes, and entertaining ideas.
5. Duvet Cover Set
Nothing says self-care like a good night's sleep. For us, a comfortable bed with the perfect bedding is essential. That's why we've loved investing in bedding that's both aesthetically pleasing and so comfortable.
This Cloud Cotton Duvet Set is made from Turkish cotton and will leave you counting down the hours before diving in each night.
6. Gourmet Coffee Subscription
If you know us, you know we love supporting small businesses. We love Canyon Coffee for its delicious coffee as well as its adorable packaging. As one of our favorite Valentine's Day gifts for yourself, they offer memberships which makes getting coffee right to your door that much easier.
7. Fast-Drying Bath Mat
Step out of the shower and extend that “ahhh” feeling with our fast-drying Bath Stone Mat. Made with diatomaceous earth, this mat offers a chic, natural stone feel that's not only a treat for your feet but also a boon for bathroom hygiene. A perfect self-care gift for Valentine's Day this year.
8. Aromatherapy Diffuser
How about a little fragrant medicine to soothe your senses? An aromatherapy diffuser is just the thing for that. Fill your room with calming scents and create a little haven of peace right where you are. Perfect for those chill-out moments at home.
9. Luxury Bath Bombs Set
Take your bath time up a notch with some luxury bath bombs. Pop one in your tub, and watch as it fizzes into a blissful, fragrant experience. It's your personal spa session at home, ready to melt away your day's stresses.
10. Silk Pillowcase
Treat yourself to some nighttime luxury with this thoughtful Valentine's gift for yourself. Not only does it feel like a dream, but it's also kind to your skin and hair. Silk pillowcases help maintain healthy skin and hair by reducing friction and promoting a restful night's sleep. Wake up feeling refreshed and rejuvenated.
11. Personalized Journal
Got thoughts to spill? Get them down in a personalized journal. It's your personal space to jot down dreams, ideas, or just daily reflections. If you're wondering what to get yourself for Valentine's Day, you can't go wrong with the gift of self-reflection and mindfulness.
12. Yoga Mat
Whether you're into yoga or just love stretching, a high-quality yoga mat is a great gift for yourself. Think of it as your personal zen to keep your mind and body in sync. You're doing yourself a favor by supporting your physical and mental well-being.
13. Cozy Cashmere Sweater
Nothing beats the snug feel of a cozy cashmere sweater. It's not just a sweater; it's a hug in clothing form, perfect for those chilly days. A perfect blend of style and comfort, it's a gift for Valentine's Day that keeps on giving.
14. Art Supplies Kit
Fancy yourself a creative soul? Then, this gift for Valentine's Day could be your ticket to a more artistic life. Whether you're sketching, painting, or crafting, it's all about letting your imagination run wild. It's not just a gift; it's a journey into the world of art and imagination.
15. Premium Tea Collection
Tea lovers, rejoice! This is the perfect Valentine's Day gift for yourself if you love sipping on soothing blends. Pick your favorite blend and let every cup be a little celebration.
16. Noise-Canceling Headphones
Create your own personal escape away with a pair of noise-canceling headphones. They're perfect for immersing in your favorite tunes or just enjoying some quiet time. A must-have for those moments when you need a little break from reality.
17. Indoor Herb Garden Kit
How about growing your own herbs right in your kitchen? Indoor herb garden kits can make charming and practical Valentine's Day gifts for me. Add some greenery to your space and spice up your cooking with fresh flavors by bringing a bit of nature indoors.
18. Electric Wine Opener
Who doesn't love a hassle-free way to open that bottle of merlot or chardonnay? An electric wine opener is the perfect little helper to your weekly wine night and a must have if you're a self-taught sommelier.
19. Meditation App Subscription
Feeling frazzled? Find tranquility and focus with this self-care gift for Valentine's Day. A meditation app is like having a little oasis of calm in your pocket, helping you to unwind, find your zen, and sharpen your focus.
20. Online Cooking Class
Ready to spice up your kitchen skills? Then dive into an online cooking class. Whether you're a beginner or a seasoned chef, classes make great Valentine's Day gifts for yourself. They're a fun, interactive way to learn new recipes and techniques, all from the comfort of your own home.
21. Portable Hammock
Create your own little relaxation spot anywhere you want with a portable hammock. Set it up in your living room, balcony, or garden and voilà – instant chill zone. It's your go-to for lazy days, reading, or just enjoying a quiet moment.
22. Wireless Speaker
Fill your space with your favorite tunes using a wireless bluetooth speaker. It's a fantastic addition to any home, perfect for setting the mood. Whether you're hosting a party or having a chill evening to yourself, this gift for Valentine's Day gets you great sound with no strings attached!
23. Foot Massager
Your feet work hard all day long so why not give them some love? Perfect for unwinding at the end of the day and getting ready for what tomorrow might bring. It's like a mini spa treatment in your own home.
24. Crafting DIY Kit
Get ready to craft something amazing by unleashing your inner artist. Whether it's knitting, painting, or jewelry making, it's a wonderfully satisfying way to spend some “me time” and create something beautiful and unique.
25. High-Quality Makeup Set
Makeup can be a form of self-expression and confidence. Indulge in a bit of glam with a luxury makeup kit. They make the perfect gifts to buy for yourself this Valentine's Day, combining the joy of beauty with the thrill of trying new looks.
26. Plush Weighted Blanket
Sleep is the ultimate-form of self-care. Get a better night's rest with a weighted blanket. This gift for Valentine's Day is a cozy and comforting way to improve your sleep quality.
27. Fitness Tracker
Stay on top of your fitness game with this brilliant Valentine's Day gift for yourself. Whether you're counting steps or tracking sleep, it's a useful tool to stay on top of your health goals, monitor your progress, and keep motivated. A smart way to look after your health and keep pushing towards your goals.
28. Online Course Subscription
Itching to learn something new? An online course subscription is your ticket to expanding your knowledge. From coding to calligraphy, there are plenty of courses to choose from on sites like Skillshare, Masterclass, or Udemy. It's the perfect gift for Valentine's Day if you've got a curious mind.
29. Personalized Photo Album
How about reliving your life's favorite moments? A personalized photo album is your very own storybook that you can fill with snapshots to make you smile. This Valentine's Day, cozy up and flip through those sweet memories that make life worth living.
30. Gourmet Cooking Ingredients Set
Calling all kitchen wizards! Spice up your culinary adventures with this Valentine's Day gift for yourself. Picture this: truffle oils dancing in your pasta, exotic spices bringing life to your dishes, and artisanal vinegars adding that perfect zing. It's your secret weapon for making magic in the kitchen.
31. Virtual Reality Headset
Go on an adventure without even leaving your couch. A VR headset brings you extraordinary experiences right from the comfort of home. It's like a ticket to anywhere, which makes it one of our coolest Valentine's Day gifts for me.
32. Makeup Brush Holder
Keep your makeup brushes organized and easily accessible with a stylish makeup brush holder. This practical gift helps maintain the longevity of your brushes and keeps your vanity neat and tidy. Perfect for makeup enthusiasts, it's a simple yet effective way to add a touch of elegance to your beauty routine.
